It’s not cheap. I took a
big gulp and then asked the question I didn’t want to ask – is this for one
knee or both? Knowing that the surgery
is done one at a time, I was not surprised to hear this was just for the one
knee. And it did not include the blood
work, but did include the radiology and did not include the post-op physical
therapy. Physical therapy for a
cat! To put it into proportion – I’m
estimating that when all is said and done between both surgeries, follow up
visits, pain meds, etc. that I’m looking at over 4 months of mortgage
payments.
But what is one to do? My
options are to leave her limping and in pain and let it get worse. Or fix it.
Or I guess put her down. Two of
the three options are horrendous on one level and it makes the other option,
although horrendous financially, is not really that bad.
On the flip side, it’s been wonderful visiting the hospital – every time I go everyone is commenting on how sweet a cat she is. And she is really sweet which is night and day compared to Winston and his monster doctor visits. It’s so strange being complimented on having a wonderful cat.
It’s still sinking in. I do
feel like I’ve been getting hit financially recently between losing the laptop
and the car and now this. I’m thankful
that I really have nothing to complain since I’m very lucky in life. But still, I wish life would just space these
things out a bit more. I’m crossing the
fingers that the saying that these things come in threes in true and this is
all for now.
The rub is that I want to hold off buying a car right now since
financially I’ll be a bit strapped. But
I need a car now more than ever because of all the hospital visits. The surgeon is a 30 minute drive – two towns
over. Nick has been very gracious
letting me borrow his car. But this will
be ending soon.
The other rub is that I’m supposed to limit her movement – no running
or jumping. She’s only 18 months old
with lots of energy. And she gets along
really well with her brother. And is a
big snuggler, especially at night in bed.
I was told I need to confine her in a room or large dog crate so that
she can’t jump for up to 6 weeks after her surgery. Which just seems so cruel even though I know
it’s for her own good. I think I’ve come
up with a plan that solves two things. I’ve
been wanting to paint my bedroom and think I’ve landed on a color. It’s Farrow and Ball which more pricey than
the average pain, so may need to find a cheaper knock off color equivalent at
the local hardware/paint store considering my new financial austerity. I’m going to take the sectional out of the
back sunroom. Luckily it comes apart and
I can store it in the enclosed porch.
And then I’m going to move my mattress to the sun room, on the
floor. I can put up two baby gates to
keep her enclosed (no door) and include her necessities (food, water,
litter). And then in the bedroom, I can
take the bed apart and move all the furniture to the middle of the room and
finally paint the room. This way,
Wallace and I can still hang out and she’s not ostracized. And I can still get something accomplished
which I couldn’t have done otherwise.
She’s scheduled for blood work this Saturday and surgery the
Tuesday after Thanksgiving. That’s three
weeks before mom arrives for Christmas and Nick is potentially staying with me too.
At which point I think I’ll aim to have the bedroom back in order and may
not need to be as strict with confining her.
Oh, also, she is a few pounds overweight so I’m supposed to put her on a
diet too. Right now, we’re just focusing
on taking the pain meds which she does not love. One thing at a time. Of course, throughout all this, Wallace is still her happy self, full of curious enjoyment of life. And more snuggly. I think it's because on the first visit to the vet hospital, after exploring the room, she snuggled inside my sweater, nicely protected from the strange smells and barking dogs and saw me in a new light - as her protector. The doctors say it's because one of the pain meds make cats super friendly and relaxed. I like to think it was the first reason though.
And that reminds me, when I brought her in initially, to the vet hospital. I was sure she had fractured her leg and would need a cast. Even though she didn't seem to have any sharp pain when I felt her legs. We walk into the waiting room and the place is full of dogs with casts on. It was comical - I had never seen so many dogs with casts. Now I'm wishing that was what she had. I think it would have been a lot more affordable. And here I was dreading she would need a cast. Amazing what perspective can change things.
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